At one of our Teatime sessions we dove with open hearts into part 2 of Pioneering Feminine Masculine Balance! It was a lively session full of connection and shared discoveries.
We explored how age old deep rooted fears of scarcity, belonging, rejection, exclusion, and judgments from other… hold us back from fully feeling, expressing, healing and taking action in alignment with our heart and intuition.
Meeting and melting fear is key to unleashing our free flowing love, authenticity, AND our ability to welcome in joy pleasure and support.
We discovered at TeaTime that these fears are absolutely shared between us and yet today we have options, tools and practices to remind ourselves and our nervous systems that WE ARE SAFE.
Safe to express, safe to thrive, safe to enjoy, safe to welcome in love and support, safe to love ourselves. Safe to own our worth, deep desires and longings. WORTHY OF LOVE & SUPPORT.
We can discover, tend and befriend our unconscious fears and rest assured that what we face today in the moment most often will not lead to sudden death, community exile or complete and utter abandonment. Yet these age old ripples can trigger our nervous systems to armor up blocking our ability to fully self express, connect, see all possibilities, receive support, and feel worthy and valuable.
It was brought up that those around us may resist, reject or disapprove of us self expressing or owing our worth and becoming more authentic. Yes of course we can expect resistance and that can bring difficult feelings… but WE ARE SAFE. The ones we are with are not connected to who we are becoming and will fear change…they may very well find they’ll adore who we are becoming! They are simply more comfortable with who we ARE BEING and who we HAVE BEEN in the past. Crabs in a bucket will pull down a crab about to escape. So to keep courage and momentum high we need to surround ourselves with other women who are invested in who we are becoming. LET LOVE WIN! is a safe place to practice visibility, vulnerability, and authenticity. Expression for YOU…with no attachment to outcome!
We also illuminated limitations of self expressions by journaling on this question
“Where do I judge other women?”…
By living and exploring this question we can unlock a key to inner freedom.
Where we judge others, we are often limiting ourselves…
Our light shines through us no matter what…
so what do other women do, embody, explore, say, wear, that makes us feel contracted or uncomfortable?
Traditionally as women we needed to walk a narrow line to avoid being not enough or too much. So where are we using that word TOO in our outward judgements
TOO…. expressive? Too emotional? Too assertive? too sexy? Too vulnerable? Charges too much money??? Too messy? Too generous? Too much make up? Let’s explore where our judgements are clues to unleashing our own self expression, beauty, self worth, heart songs to sing in our authentic voices…
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